Through these letters, soldiers—often in their early twenties—speak to the nation, providing a lasting, intimate glimpse into the morale and inner world of those who defend Israel.
By Hezy Laing
In the intense, final moments before IDF combat soldiers cross into hostile territory, a somber and deeply personal tradition occurs: the writing of the last letter.
While not a formal, mandated procedure by IDF high command, this practice has organically evolved into a vital ritual, particularly since major operations in Gaza, where soldiers frequently write farewell messages to parents, spouses, and children.
These letters are written in notebooks or on phones, often just before electronic devices are collected, creating a shared, silent atmosphere of profound reflection.
The tradition gained prominence in the 2014 Gaza conflict, with many soldiers penning letters in anticipation of potential loss, addressing them to loved ones in the event they do not return.
While some military reports have criticized commanding officers for encouraging the practice—arguing it affects morale—soldiers continue to write them as a way to process emotions and provide comfort to families.
The letters are often penned simultaneously within a unit, creating a powerful collective experience of mortality, dedication, and love, with soldiers carrying these documents in their pockets into battle.
The emotions expressed are complex, blending raw fear with an overwhelming sense of mission, pride, and contentment.
Many letters reveal a profound readiness to defend Israel, with soldiers apologizing for missed family events and expressing love, rather than dwelling on death.
Famous examples include letters that explicitly forbid prisoner exchanges to protect the country’s welfare, and missives filled with love, such as Yair Roitman’s, who asked his family not to be sad, stating, “Here with you always”.
So poignant are these letters that many have been published, and others, through projects like Galei Tzahal’s “Soon We Will Become a Song,” have been put to music to honor the fallen.
Through these letters, soldiers—often in their early twenties—speak to the nation, providing a lasting, intimate glimpse into the morale and inner world of those who defend Israel.
They turn the immense stress of war into a final act of unselfish love, ensuring their families know their sacrifice was meaningful.
